Life After Loss With The Wheelers

This week has been hard for me to write. Last week I had a little burst of energy and started to write down my blog titles and a few notes on how I wanted to share our story, and this week when it came to writing the first one I just couldn’t. I know logically nobody asked me to do this but, I also know spiritually it’s something I need to do. Doing so brings up unprocessed emotions and confronts truths that are reality instead of unconfirmed hope. So with this I’ll just star

Generosity giving update To our family, friends, and every single person who gave, From the bottom of my heart… thank you. Because of your generosity, we not only reached our fundraising goal, we exceeded it in less than a week’s time. Even now, people continue to give, and we are overwhelmed by the kindness and compassion we’ve experienced. To see how much we have raised to date visit here https://gofund.me/ea55e8327 Your support has done so much more than help financially.

This birthday is different, a lot has happened this past year, so much good, and an equal share of heartbreak. ❤️‍🩹 Usually, when my birthday comes around, I have some deep reflection or profound lesson to share. This year, though, for me is different as I’m in process. I feel like I’ve changed. Maybe that’s for the better. It’s hard to tell if what I’m feeling is growth, grief, pain, or emotions I haven’t fully processed yet. Perhaps it’s a little of all of them. What I do

We are overwhelmed with the love, support, and generosity that has been provided for the Wheeler family in just the past week. Doshie has been healing as well as possible, considering she just had emergency surgery on her abdomen and uterus. She is moving very gingerly and still on a considerable amount of pain meds. Thankfully, I’ve seen her progress from only being able to walk with tears from pain, to now, today, getting out of bed all by herself. Abdominal surgery is no j