Life After Loss With The Wheelers

⚠️Trigger Warning ⚠️ 2015: I was living in Hawaii, married, with a phenomenal small group that I led, with an impactful women’s ministry that I created. I served on the media team at church where I did video and our church's announcements. That same year I experienced my first pregnancy loss. Those of you who have known me for a while, y’all know the anguish I had been in for years because of it. After losing my son, I went into a DEEP depression. So deep, it almost cost me m

Motivation Monday’s let’s talk about it! Ever so often I get commented on by my weight loss, everyone is curious as the “how” more than the “why”, I’m going to tell you both! If you’ve known me over the past decade all you’ve known or seen from me was me at my largest between 200-265 pounds largest clothing size 20. I’ll discuss how I got to that point in weight on a separate post in the future but right now I wanna focus on how I lost the weight. Over the last decade I’ve di

Five years ago, I wrote a piece called "The Hurt & The Healer" to talk about my grieving process with my first child. It was previously on my former Ministry and Organization page "Rhema & Freedom" but I ended the organization back in 2019. Today would of been my sons 6th birthday to commemorate this day I reflected and reread what I had written all those years ago and decided to repost it here on my site. Though my reality looks a lot different then it did back in 2015 the w

One question that has plagued me since I was a child, which I have yet to find the answer to and probably never will is this. How can you see or witness the self destruction of a loved one and not feel completely helpless about not being able to do anything about it to stop them. (Yes you can pray and that makes a world of a difference but I referring to actual action) If you try to ignore it you feel guilty in doing so, if you try to help, you get pushed away and rejected. I