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Life After Loss
"Through Our Eyes"
A look inside our perspectives on life after navigating pregnancy losses as christians, and the journey of fertility.
A look inside our perspectives on life after navigating pregnancy losses as christians, and the journey of fertility.

Life After Loss With The Wheelers


The Hurt & The Healer
Five years ago, I wrote a piece called "The Hurt & The Healer" to talk about my grieving process with my first child. It was previously on my former Ministry and Organization page "Rhema & Freedom" but I ended the organization back in 2019. Today would of been my sons 6th birthday to commemorate this day I reflected and reread what I had written all those years ago and decided to repost it here on my site. Though my reality looks a lot different then it did back in 2015 the w

Doshie Dior
Oct 12, 20214 min read


Growing Weary
One question that has plagued me since I was a child, which I have yet to find the answer to and probably never will is this. How can you see or witness the self destruction of a loved one and not feel completely helpless about not being able to do anything about it to stop them. (Yes you can pray and that makes a world of a difference but I referring to actual action) If you try to ignore it you feel guilty in doing so, if you try to help, you get pushed away and rejected. I

Doshie Dior
Jun 27, 20212 min read


Pain is inevitable, healing is optional.
The thing about brokenness is, you actually have the mental, physical and psychological compacity to heal. It’s just your desire to be healed has to be greater than the pain you have endured. The reason why this is so important is because once you’ve healed and have been made whole, there is a freedom that overrides every single portion of pain you have ever experienced. A lot of times people get stuck in the pain and never do the work to be healed so they bleed out on others

Doshie Dior
Jun 23, 20211 min read


Jealous Love
Most days I am proud of myself on how I persevered through all the suffering I have experienced. But some days I struggle and ask God why do I have to feel the pain, what did I do to deserve this? But I am learning more that these hard times I have encounter post divorce are a result of two things. 1. Me getting into a marriage I shouldn’t have thinking I could save a man, who didn’t want to be saved. Truthfully even if he did, Jesus is the only one who saves and set free. “L

Doshie Dior
May 26, 20211 min read
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